Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Something About Love...

What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needsmost is respect. The most important thing for a girlis her heart. For a guy its his ego.Give your man his own time and space. Let himhave his time for his friends, sports, family, self,and God. The relationship will grow old quickly iflagi kayong magkasama . Give him time to missyou and you'll see how he will love you more. If theguy naman is obsessed and just wants to be withyou all the time, tell him you cant respecta "puppy" for long.Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagalna kayo, there is always something fresh and new.Variety is the spice of life.Discover something you both like to do and enjoyit TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay namagkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other bylearning about it kahit konti. If you love someone,yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way tounderstanding him later pag may disagreementkayo.Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh?Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot saDiyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nyalolokohin, because he knows God sees everythinghe does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa thatbefore you part after a date, with hold hands andeyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believeme it's effective.Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.Believe in "Magic" (magic ka dyan? Hehe..). Kahit di minsan practical owalang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o soundscrazy sa iba, do sweet little things (dapat talaga ito!!!) for the one youlove kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memorieswill be fun to recall later in life. The corniest songo gift o letter ang laging kabog!True love brings out the best in each other. Findsomething good in your boyfriend and nurture it,encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.It's healthy to fight (oo naman). Doon nyo lang maaayos angmga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ngrelationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ngmabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga howdalas you fight. What matters is how often youmake bati.Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfectat laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! Anddiba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati natayo...".But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagina lang manuyo o magsori (ouch). Choose the battles napapatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na.Don't sweat the small stuff.Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especiallypag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expecthim to be like nung una. 'Coz like a student, di naituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2.Change WILL happen... you both will change andyour love WILL change too. It's up to you na lang ifthe change will be for the better or for the worse.Life is about growth. Grow with it.When break up comes and it's time to saygoodbye, don't doubt the love just because it didn'tlast. May mga bagay sa buhay na di mannagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Somegood things are just never meant to last forever.Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on. (cno kaya natatamaan dito?)Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain.Ika nga "it's when you hurt the worse that you lovethe MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag kana lang magmahal.Life is a balance. And love is both holding on andletting go. Know when to fight for your man andwhen to let him go. God will guide you kung anongdapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapatmataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng pusomo to know His wisdom.